what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life?

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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby m&m » Thu Jul 24, 2014 2:43 am

being_meh wrote:Since i was a child i really dreamed of having my own so called family. i thought then it is so easy to achieve, but unfortunately it is one of the most difficult to have. not everyone is lucky enough to finally get that..as ive been growing up, i saw a lot of couple who have at first madly in love with each other,got married have children but after a few years they just broke up..leaving their children wondering why their parents got separated.i know how it is to be in a broken family.. i know how it affects the child...i should know coz i've been growing up with a broken home...my parents got separated when i was only 5 years old. and its really hard for me and my brother. coz we don't know what's really happening and to whom we are going to be with..i just keep on telling myself if i grew up i will do everything to be a good person, a wife and a mother. i wont let anything ruin my family no matter what happened.i will fight until the end.But i was wrong, even how much u tried to save the relationship as long as ur significant partner don't do anything to help u out. its not gonna work anymore. u are going to be tired of trying. especially when the love, respect and trust are all gone. u cant fix it anymore.. u would rather stay out in the relationship than staying on it.. it is sometimes better for the kid.... im not saying i am already gave up on my dreams.. i still hoping that i will find it one day. i am just waiting and keeps on praying..

who knows he might be there outhere wondering also... :)

how about u?


Let us talk about Parent-Adult-Child. when we were still a Child, we were loved by parents, and we were dependent to our parents. Parents has been a great contribution to our lives. We learn from them good and bad. That is why, parents should try best to be an example to children. That is what parents are all about. As we grow and become adult, we learn more and we adapt to our environment. We lean from school, learn from others etc.

Talking about marriage, many live in illusion. Someone day dream that marriage is all about happiness, having kids and be happy. And when problems comes and expectation fall, then so with the relationship. Someone say, "this is not what i want". Because at first, the person is living in illusion and not in reality.

For the family who were not successful, we must try to erase in our mind that that life is not like that. As psychologist says, what we learn or enter our mind will always be replayed. That is why when bad things happen to our family, or having bad experience, like broken family, trials in family and misunderstanding, we must learn that it is not the end to it.

We will be able to replay in our life, but we can stop to replay for it. Example, we might have been into broken relationship, problems and broken family. We must not affect our life for it, it might affect us or really affects us, because that is what we feel as what our NOT OK CHILD. What I am saying is that, our experience in life what make us NOT OK will be OK.

on the other hand, as Christian, we have an encouragement from reading scripture, enlightenment and hope that, life is not just like that. :P :P :P :P :P :P :P That is why next time we feel this way, we must remind ourselves that my NOT OK life will have an OK life. :P :P :P :P :P
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby angel » Thu Jul 24, 2014 6:13 am

i dreamed to have a daughter now i have it! yet i really wish for is to have a complete family and give what they want, even in simple living i can share to someone who love me and will love me too.
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby purex » Fri Aug 29, 2014 1:02 am

My greatest dream is have someone to hug in my deepest hurt and stress in life. Even not in hurt or stress, I desire to have someone to hug. :arrow:
Wn God knows yor READY 4 D rsponsibility of comitment,He'l reveal D ryt prson undr Hs tym& ryt circumstnces.Wait patiently,Dont waste Ur tym srching& wshing.Grow& b redy &yo'l see.God wl giv U a lov story far betr than U cud ever dreamed
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby jadegil6 » Fri Aug 29, 2014 2:57 pm

That may be a universal feeling, purex. We all desire to have someone love us, and to listen to us, and to reassure us.
Here I, as a compassionate person, reach out to give you a digital hug. But be advised that some of the readers might interpret this as us being "involved" in a love affair. hahahahaha

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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby cheryz » Sat Aug 30, 2014 7:49 am

heres also my friendship hug purex
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby wayne208 » Sat Aug 30, 2014 7:31 pm

Purex .. I agree with You on that .. We all Want to be Hugged and to Hug Someone in Our Life . To have a Loving Wife is a Great Dream for Me Also . :)
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby cheryz » Tue Sep 02, 2014 10:00 am

when i was alone my greatest dream is to become successful so i could help my family and to go in the disney land :) i remember when i was a little i just dream of it..now that i have my little boy my greatest dream to be with him in ups and downs :)
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby jk.kj73 » Tue Oct 28, 2014 2:26 am

Most dreams in life are good and happiness. Most wanted to have a good life, good health and most of all happy family. Those good dreams wont just come as an accident or just a moment, in fact, it is a lot of hard work, wherein most of us, hardly do hard work. There was one person says, "be careful when you wish or dream of". I wonder why? To my surprise, all our dreams need to be achieved. By doing so, it takes a lot of hard work and energy. But also I realized that some people have very shallow happiness. Being contented in every situation, could be small or big achievement in life, makes them happy. I believe, it is a state of mind, when it comes to happiness. We can be happy in many things. Therefore, it is important that what we wish , we are capable of reaching it because when we are not, that makes people unhappy. Do you agree with this?
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby Smiley » Sat Nov 08, 2014 12:36 pm

[quote="jk.kj73"]Most dreams in life are good and happiness. Most wanted to have a good life, good health and most of all happy family. Those good dreams wont just come as an accident or just a moment, in fact, it is a lot of hard work, wherein most of us, hardly do hard work.

I agree with you very much. It is not enough to simply hope and pray and wish for success.It takes a real effort to be successful.If I was to wish for a clean house while I drank coffee and watched TV I probably would not have my wish come true but if I wished for a clean house while cleaning it I would have the benefit.
I don't pray for things.I will instead offer a prayer of thanks.I`m thankful for having the ability to improve my situation.We should all be thankful for that,we all get to make the choice every day of how we are going to react to our surroundings and our situation.
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Re: what is ur greatest dream that u want to have in ur life

Postby angel » Mon Dec 08, 2014 4:10 pm

one of my greatest drem when i was child was to tour the world to go to Canada and Israel and London :) i just remember it when i read this topic again. :) i hope someday even only at one country i love too i can come in even a single visit :)
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